380th

Bomb Group

380th Bomb Group Association

NEWSLETTER #18 -- March 2004


CHARLES DAVID PARRY-OKEDEN, RAAF, 531ST SQUADRON


My name is Ian Parry-Okeden. I am the nephew of Flight Lieutenant Charles David (Dave) Parry-Okeden who was a member of the Royal Australian Air Force Liberator Squadrons who served directly with the 380th Bomb Group. His was the 531st Squadron.

I wanted to express my sincere gratitude to you and all who have done such a magnificent job to preserve on the Internet the brave deeds of the men who flew with the 380th Bomb Group. It is superb effort and the information invaluable to the future generations researching details of their family members' lives and their war sacrifice.

Dave was killed when his plane crashed in March 1945 (I understand this was shortly after they had ended their duties with the US 380th Bomb Group.).

I thought your members might be moved to read a diary extract I discovered among some old family papers.

It think it illustrates the magnificent character of these men who fought so courageously.


EXTRACT from Flt. Lieutenant David Parry-Okeden's diary dated 10th February 1945. He was killed 6 weeks later in air operations on 23rd March and requested that should his diary be censored he desired this "Soliloquy" sent to his Father.

"I wonder if one of these days a burst will come up through the bombardier's window when I'm bending over the sight on a run - who knows? It's in the lap of the Gods? It doesn't worry me. There's not much time to worry about things like that on a bombing run.

What better way to die than in fighting for all one's loved ones. Fighting so that they can smile and walk without fear of the ever-present dread word that a loved one has made the supreme sacrifice. That children in all parts of the world will play games and be happy again, without the menace of the whistling bomb or screaming shell. That men and women will be free to live their own lives again. Dear God! If the time should come that I have to die; I'd die gladly if my death is the cost, that I, as one individual have to pay for that.

The war has taught me much and given me a fuller life, as in the past four years I have learned that all men are equal, sharing danger together with men of all ranks and all stations. I have come to learn the real brotherhood of man, the comradeship that exists among us who fly together. The courage, fear, bravery and make-up of men. The nobleness and gentleness underlying rough exteriors.

War does strange things! It turns men's thoughts to God, their hearts to deeper understanding and their minds to a thirst for knowledge and a way of expressing their feelings through poetry and writing. It has taught me the marvels of God and what an insignificant puny creature is man in the scheme of things. Flying high in the sky for long periods surrounded only by clouds and silence that is broken only by the roar of powerful engines, earth and its worries and material things are far removed from us.

High in the heavens at night, with the sky aflame with its millions of pin points of light, there is an infinite peace and beauty that is only to be found there. After a long night to see the wonder of dawn breaking and the world and earth beginning to unfold and take shape again, as the heavens light up and the golden orb of the sun throws its first questing rays of light and warmth over the hitherto darkened world. One seems to have been in another world for a night and very close to the Creator of all the beauty one has seen and experienced.

And a strange sense of peace and contentment fills one's mind."


Charles David Parry-Okeden is buried at Adelaide River War Cemetery, 113 kilometres south of Darwin, Northern Territory, Australia. It is a well maintained and picturesque cemetery and war memorial which is visited by many people each year.

Because of the family's grief at his loss, I and his other nephews who were born after the war were never really told the details of the crash. But while researching the war service of both Dave and my own father's (Lt Col. W.N. Parry-Okeden, OBE, DSO) I discovered that, while still a mystery, there are some details of the crash, and the crashes of other Liberators, are now on a website. See website http://home.st.net.au/~dunn/ozcrashes/wa06.htm ~ the site may be of interest to your members interested in the Australian crews who fought with the 580th.

Yours sincerely,

Ian Parry-Okeden
Business Development Manager
Media Monitors Australia Pty Ltd
email: ian.parryokeden@mediamonitors.com.au


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